Charles William Wilmer

Charles William Wilmer, 85, of Charlottesville, Virginia, passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, October 19, 2026.

Born on February 5, 1941, in Amherst, Virginia, Charles was the son of the late William Hawes Wilmer and Hilda Tucker Wilmer. He was preceded in death by his beloved son, Todd William Wilmer.

Charles was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend whose kindness and generosity touched everyone who knew him. He married the love of his life, Becky Wilmer, and together they shared 65 wonderful years of marriage, building a life centered on love, family, and unwavering commitment to one another.

Charles spent his career with J. Bruce Barnes Lumber Company in Crozet, Virginia, dedicating more than 40+ years of service. He was respected for his strong work ethic, dedication, and integrity, qualities that carried over into every aspect of his life.

Charles was a pillar of the Crozet community and dedicated countless hours to serving others throughout his life. He was a lifetime member and volunteer with the Crozet Fire Department, where he selflessly gave his time in service to his neighbors and community. He was also a longtime member of the Crozet Sportsman's Club, a member of the Crozet Masonic Lodge, and a proud member of the Fraternal Order of Police (FOP). Through his volunteerism, civic involvement, and unwavering commitment to helping others, Charles earned the respect and admiration of those around him and left a lasting impact on the community he loved.

Beyond his volunteer service, Charles was well known throughout the area for his catering business and exceptional barbecue. Whether serving at community gatherings, special events, or family celebrations, his delicious food and warm hospitality brought people together and became a cherished tradition for many.

He is survived by his loving wife, Becky Wilmer; his daughter, Charlotte Wilmer; his sister, Kathy Collins; and his cherished grandchildren, Joshua Yager and Liam Wilmer. He also leaves behind many extended family members and friends who will miss his warmth, wisdom, and gentle presence.

Whether you knew him by Charles, Charlie or CW, his life was a testament to the values of hard work, compassion, and devotion to family. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know and loved him.

The family would like to send a special thanks to the Legacy Hospice Healthcare Staff and the BirghtStar CNAs that supported Charles in his final days. Additionally, the family would like to thank his ice cream buddy, Theresa Laury for her visits and laughter.

A graveside service will be held on Sunday, October 25, 2026, at 2pm at Mt. Pleasant United Methodist Church located at 650 Thrashers Creek Rd, Amherst, Va 24521.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that memorial donations be made to the Crozet Fire Department or Legacy Hospice.

A Celebration of Life will be held at the Crozet Fire Department on November 21, 2026 located at 5652 Three Notch'd Rd, Crozet, VA 22932 at 1pm.

"Those we love don't go away; they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed, and forever dear." – Alex MacLean